*cue record scratching sound*
I had about a paragraph typed up in here from a draft over the New Year’s weekend but never got around to finishing the post up. Back to the
drawing writing board I go!
Honestly, it wasn’t until about a week ago that I really focused on what 2018’s word would be. And I hadn’t given a ton of reflection onto what 2017’s word was until I went back through my archives and remembered what it was. To really get my feet firmly planted in the direction I want to go for 2018, I downloaded the Year Compass to close out 2017 and start brainstorming on 2018. It’s a free download and was worth the time it took to jot down things from my brain.
First, let’s rewind on 2017. I had chosen peace for my word last year without really knowing where I was going with it. The latter portion of 2014 and then 2015 (and parts of 2016) were difficult years for me mentally, and the emotional upheaval of having a baby thrown into our world, and everything surrounding those events, threw everything off kilter. I took a lot of time to process that (and am still processing it) and I watched as 2017 happened and many of the things I read about in getting my head back on straight postpartum kept coming up—the language of it all. It felt like 2017 as a whole was about getting the world/country’s head on straight after the storm of 2016.
Looking back, I know I chose peace to keep working out some of those things from the previous couple of years but it wasn’t until mid year that I began exploring meditation and doing 5 minute increments in the middle of my day as a reset. It didn’t take long for me to feel the mental shift with those 5 minutes and adding in some rough journaling helped as well. I’m a person who will sit and ponder on something for a long time before I can really process it fully and sometimes that is not the best place to be in, stuck in your head.
I kept with the meditation for several months but autumn came and I slipped a bit. It’s time to revive those 5 minute sits and do some more random writing. Every word and every year is just one small layer adding to the bigger picture of a more whole and better person.
As as said, my word for 2018 didn’t come to me until last week. I settled on strong. I’ve written here about getting back into fitness after having Forest and while there have been several instances of some consistency and progress, I’ve never been able to keep that balance going. Frankly, I know it is because I try to do too much and have always wanted to do all the things. Another aspect is that I haven’t figured out what works best for me. Well, long distance hiking works but that’s not feasible, right? Something else I tend to do is think I need to be doing something one particular way for it to “work” but I’m realizing that doesn’t work for me so why was I thinking this? I enjoy what I enjoy and the best thing for me to do is actually be consistent. I can’t keep doing this in fits and starts.
Strong body, strong mind, strong life…that’s where I’m going with for 2018.
I went back to find my first post about One Little Word from after I switched to WordPress for blogging. I’m really laughing at some of those intentions because a few I feel as if I could be writing about today. Except, I’ve come to accept that I am an aspirational runner—I like the idea of running and I enjoy a short 1-3 mile run, but I am probably never going to be running long distances or doing any races. It’s just not me and I accept that now. I get a kick out of the fact that I was off Facebook at that time, too! I just permanently deleted it a few weeks ago. It felt really good to do that. More letters, emails, and texts to friends this year—which is easier said than done. I usually have no problems being the one to reach out, it is everyone else. If it doesn’t happen on Facebook it doesn’t happen anywhere else and that’s so frustrating to me.
2018 will be 10 years since we went to Bolivia, my niece Ashleigh would have turned 8 years old, and it will be 8 years since we thru-hiked the AT. It’s also my 20 year high school reunion—unless they consider Facebook reunion enough for everyone and I won’t have to deal with that. Oh, it’s also mid-term elections at the end of the year which means we need to do some state flipping to blue! Already at the tail-end of another decade—time moves quickly.
With that, what is your word for the year? Or maybe you are doing intentions—share them with me!
Happy New Year everyone!
It’s a full month later and I’m finally settling down to write about our camping trip to Lake Brownwood State Park. We were supposed to go to Mission Tejas State Park but Chris received an email a couple of weeks prior to the date that the park did not have electricity—including the bathrooms. Now, you are probably thinking, didn’t you do two thru-hikes and deal without electricity??, but that was without a 3 year old and it wasn’t at Thanksgiving when we were trying to make a decent meal. We’ve done front country camping without electric before at our campsite but there was always a bathroom. Plus, we had invited my parents to come and well, mom was not going to come without some kind of electricity!
Trying to find an available campsite with electricity two weeks before Thanksgiving was pretty difficult. We were able to come up with two parks that had sites available, Lake Mineral Wells just west of Fort Worth and Lake Brownwood, which is west of Waco on the northern edge of the Hill Country. It was an area none of us had been to, though I do recall driving in the vicinity of the area when Chris and I did our Texas road trip after we came back from the AT because we had driven through Cross Plains which is just north of the state park. Cross Plains is famous because of author Robert E. Howard and is featured in a movie about Howard called The Whole Wide World with Vincent D’Onofrio and Renee Zellweger. If you can find the movie, I recommend watching it. It is underrated and just a lovely, quiet movie to watch.
Thanksgiving weekend turned out to be near perfect weather, though maybe a tad chilly at night at least one or two of the nights we were there. I’d brought more blankets than usual and we had them piled up high! One thing we’ve learned over the years is that there is usually never too many blankets we can bring with us! There have been far too many times we’ve had to hit up the local Walmart to buy an extra blanket or two—and even a time we’ve dropped by to get pillows because we forgot to pack them! Now we try to make a point of going over the list before we leave the driveway!
Getting to the state park on Thanksgiving Day was fairly easy going. The roads were relatively quiet and our main problem, like all Thanksgiving travel we have done for camping, is to find somewhere to eat for lunch. I had looked ahead to find who might be open and because we had made good time getting to Brownwood, we ended up not needing to stop in Waco and instead pushed on to Brownwood where we found a Whataburger. There were a couple of other diner type places open as well but we wanted something a little quicker by the time we had gotten to town. Whataburger was also very busy with other travelers and it was kind of nice to eat there because we hadn’t eaten at Whataburger in quite awhile.
My parents arrived about an hour after we did to the state park. Their drive was much shorter as they were coming from Ft. Worth and just had to bop down I-20 and then hit a Farm-to-Market road south to the state park. We were lucky to have clear skies for the entire time, maybe an overcast morning, but other than it being chilly at night the weather was really quite perfect.
The tent only sites, with water and electric, were great because for the most part they were in a section of the park with a low RV or 5th wheel ratio. There were a couple of smaller trailers or pop-ups but they didn’t really run their generators much. And after the first day we had empty sites next to us with just a couple of people using one of the sites for a stopover at night. Behind us was a larger grassy area that allowed Forest to roam and play without it being close to a road or problematic and we could keep an eye on him so he didn’t stray too far. We had wanted a lake accessible site so Chris could fish but they weren’t available when we arrived and the ones closer to the water didn’t have a ton of room for two tents but our site worked out great anyway.
I think the best part of this trip was just sitting and being. I made a conscious effort to keep my phone in the tent except for some Thanksgiving texts to family and friends but other than that it was digital free for me—the other three did not partake in that! I didn’t even make progress on any crochet or reading because it was just pleasant to chat with my parents, sit and watch the wildlife, and just think a little bit.
The park has several great trails that Chris, Forest, and I went on and we explored some of the old CCC buildings that were built when the park was built. Spending the almost four full days there was quite delightful and something I really needed to start the holiday season. It launched me into the quiet hibernation mode of December and now I’m ready to move out of that and into spring.
We hit the road home right after breakfast and it took us much longer to get home because of stops for Forest to potty a few times and to get lunch. Then we detoured a different way home because of a Renaissance festival that’s on the way to our house and traffic backs up during the season. It was definitely a rougher trip home than it was going.
More about our hikes on a couple of their trails coming soon!
I hope your day was as cozy as ours!
Compared to last year I almost doubled the amount of books I read. And if I count the five or six books that I started but didn’t finish (they are good, I have just been reading them in spurts) my number would be closer to 50.
The year started off good with reading and I dipped into audio books more this year, however I find that I can only really focus on those when I have a big project at work that lets me focus for hours on end. When I’m bouncing between projects or am doing other things that require more brain power like report writing, I can’t really listen to audio books. Reading on the Kindle was my primary means of reading this year but that dropped precipitously when Forest’s bedtime routine was changed at the end of October. I only read one book in the last six or so weeks and that was The Stranger in the Woods: The Extraordinary Story of the Last True Hermit by Michael Finkel. And I made myself read that because it came up in my digital lending borrows after having been on hold for many months. Sometimes when those holds come up they are something that I had flagged because it was interesting but then it just wasn’t the time to focus on them so I pass them up. This was one I wanted to read and I really enjoyed it!
If you want to go back through my reviews of what I read throughout the year, you can peruse those here. A note on the abandoned books, I have stopped feeling guilty about quitting books because a lot of other people are sharing that they are working on the same thing—life is too short to trudge through a book that is only mediocre (to you) or maybe isn’t meant for that particular moment in time. I may have abandoned a few more than this but I think I deleted them off my Goodreads feed so I couldn’t go back and figure out what they were.
A summary of the reading year will be after the book list.
*denotes that the book was abandoned
- Ilsa by Madeline L’Engle
- Euphoria by Lily King
- The Orphan Mother by Robert Hicks
- Enchanted Islands by Allison Amend
- Deep Summer by Gwen Bristow
- Edenbrooke by Julianne Donaldson
- Blackmoore by Julianne Donaldson
- The Pearl Thief by Elizabeth Wein
- Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein
- Rose Under Fire by Elizabeth Wein
- The Scottish Prisoner by Diana Gabaldon
- Letters from Paris by Juliet Blackwell
- Leave Me by Gayle Forman
- The Daring Ladies of Lowell by Kate Alcott
- The Patron Saint of Liars by Ann Patchett
- What Happened by Hillary Rodham Clinton
- Sunshine State by Sarah Gerard*
- Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle
- The Sound of a Wild Snail Eating by Elisabeth Tova Bailey
- This is the Story of a Happy Marriage by Ann Patchett
- Cold Tangerines by Shauna Niequist
- This Life Is In Your Hands: One Dream, Sixty Acres, and a Family Undone by Melissa Coleman
- Wishful Drinking by Carrie Fisher
- The Stranger in the Woods: The Extraordinary Story of the Last True Hermit by Michael Finkel
- Coming of Age at the end of Nature: A Generation Faces Living on a Changed Planted by Julie Dunlap*
- Appalachian Odyssey by Steve Sherman
- Finding Everett Ruess by David Roberts
- On Trails: An Exploration by Robert Moor
- Bird Watcher’s Digest Butterflies Backyard Guide by Erin Gettler
- Along the Appalachian Trail: West Virginia, Maryland, and Pennsylvania by Leonard M. Adkins
- Gaia’s Garden: A Guide to Home-scale Permaculture by Toby Hemenway
- A New Garden Ethic: Cultivating Defiant Compassion for an Uncertain Future by Benjamin Vogt
- Companion Planting for the Kitchen Gardener by Allison Greer
- Bringing Nature Home by Douglas W. Tallamy
- The Humane Gardener: Nurturing a Backyard Habitat for Wildlife by Nancy Lawson
- Paths of Desire: The Passions of a Suburban Gardener by Dominique Browning*
- Grow Curious by Gayla Trail
- Second Nature: A Gardener’s Education by Michael Pollan
- Epic Tomatoes by Craig Lehoullier
- Reading People: How Seeing the World through the Lens of Personality Changes Everything by Anne Bogel
- Unlatched: The Evolution of Breastfeeding and the Making of a Controversy by Jennifer Grayson
- Men Explain Things to Me by Rebecca Solnit
- We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
- Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg by Irin Carmon
Best Fiction Book
Let’s break this down into YA fiction and adult fiction. Best YA Fiction goes to the Code Name Verity series by Elizabeth Wein. Starting with CNV I devoured the subsequent two in the series and really loved the characters and plot. It was a series that I could easily find myself revisiting in the future. As for adult fiction, I want to make it a three way tie with Enchanted Islands, Euphoria, and Ilsa. All three left me wanting more and were so unique and unexpected in their own ways.
What Happened, This is the Story of a Happy Marriage, and This Life is in Your Hands round out my top three and almost all are near equal. I would probably say they come in a close 1st, 2nd, and 3rd in that order.
On Trails tops my list of best outdoor writing for the year followed closely by The Stranger in the Woods. I liked Finding Everett Ruess but found myself not liking Ruess himself at all. It would a good read for people interested in the current events going on with the Utah National Monuments because it takes place in many of these areas. I need to re-read On Trails at some point or add it to our book collection.
So much good in this category that I find it hard to rate them! Let’s go with Second Nature, Grow Curious, and Bringing Nature Home, but in reality they were all excellent in their own ways and they all offer up good stuff to their own sub-category of the gardening world.
Best Other Non-Fiction
Notorious RBG and Men Explain Things To Me are probably the most appropriate considering the year. Long may RBG live and let’s keep this momentum going with #metoo and maybe we can get some progress on the ERA sometime soon.
I think that the amount of books I read this year is probably my max capacity at this stage in my life. If I drop some podcast listening and sub in audio books that might help but I like my podcasts for the time being. Also, last year was a bit more balanced in the fiction/non-fiction mix but I gravitated heavily towards non-fiction this year. So, maybe a bit more fiction next year.
What about you? How was your 2017 reading year?
It’s been quiet around here despite the fact I have wanted to write. Over the last week I’ve been backing up our website files and then finalizing a conversion of our hosting setup with our provider and it has been slow and time consuming. If you saw a weird post in your feed this morning it was because I was setting up WordPress again. I’ve had to do this once or twice over the years and it always throws me for a loop before I remember how to do it all. Thank goodness for the Updraft plug-in which backs up my files and saves it on DropBox or allows me to download and reinstall my platform.
So: More writing is coming! Until then enjoy a few things I’ve been listening to on Spotify lately!
Over the last year I have really fallen for Spotify! I like how you can create a playlist and then constantly listen to the same song over and over if you want! I was a Pandora listener for years, and we still are because that is compatible with our Sonos sound system at home (Spotify isn’t unless you upgrade to their member platform) but when I’m listening on the computer, phone, or Kindle, I’m usually listening to Spotify. Sure, there are ads but they aren’t nearly as common as on Pandora and sometimes if you are on listening on the Kindle they will say “If you tap the screen to watch this ad, listen to the next 30 minutes ad free!” It’s worth the tap and to ignore it for the 30 seconds and then you get lots of good music for the next 30 minutes!
Earlier this year they released a playlist called ‘Time Capsule’ which supposedly is put together based on your birthday to coincide of when you were a teenager or in college, and merged with some of your listens or playlists for the year. I would say it is about 75% accurate but in reality a few of them are from my late 20s and a couple of them I didn’t listen to until I was older. And if this was more accurate there would need to be a lot of Sarah McLachlan added to that list.
The second playlist is my top listens for 2017. Overall it is a pretty accurate mix of what I listened to and heavy in the classic and indie rock with some 90s R&B/Rap thrown in. And I was on a Sharon Van Etten roll the last few months. A few towards the end I don’t remember listening to so I’m not really sure that’s about, especially because I listened to other music that isn’t on the list.
Anyway, back very soon with writing, photos, and a year end book review!
Spotify’s Time Capsule
2017 Top Listens
Last week was fairly dreary around here with on and off rain and chilly temperatures. We knew it was going to head towards freezing on Thursday and Friday nights so on Thursday at lunch Chris moved a lot of the sensitive plants indoors and after I worked I moved some of my stuff off the potting bench and under the porch. When Chris got home with Forest at dinnertime he said we might have some snow flurries around 9pm. That was exciting but I figured it would be just that—flurries. We had some sleet a year or two ago with a little bit that piled up in the corners of areas near the house but it was nothing to write home about, and of course we had a little ice storm in March 2014 just as we were leaving for a trip to Florida.
But the last time it really did any snowing around here was in 2008, though I also saw 2009 mentioned in other news sources. I remember the 2008 one well because I was living in Florida and several of my Houston and Galveston friends were sharing photos of the snow. It was definitely surreal seeing snow accumulated on the Galveston Seawall! It does snow here, every 10-15 years and definitely not all over the Houston or southern Texas area.
Around 7:30 pm on Thursday I was mid-way between giving Forest his bath when Chris came in to say the snow had started. We hurried and finished up the bath and got Forest dressed so we could hop outside and watch the snow fall. At that point it was barely freezing so the snow as very wet and melting as it landed. We watched for awhile and then it was Forest’s bedtime so we started that shuffle and the snow kept falling. I finally texted my friend in College Station to ask her if it was snowing since it is only an hour drive northwest of my house. She replied with a photo of several inches and said it had been falling since 6pm! I then got online and saw it was sticking well in areas from San Antonio and Austin over to College Station. Later I saw snow photos from Rockport and Padre Island National Seashore—where they definitely got more than us!
Around 10pm the temperature dropped a degree or two and the snow began falling harder and started sticking onto the plants and then barely started sticking to the ground. I finally went to bed at 11pm which is when I took those photos in the dark at the top. I had pulled the weather up to look at the hourly temperatures and it was all hovering around 32-33* so I figured the snow would be gone the next morning.
Well, we were in for a surprise when we woke up! And all of Houston was entirely excited about the snow! Friday Morning Houston Wonderland from Space City Weather.
We put some layers on—well, putting layers on Forest was pretty difficult but Chris finally managed to get him to layer up and put gloves on—and I walked around taking as many photos as I could because I knew it was all going to be gone by noon. I had to go to work but Chris was taking a PTO day and was taking Forest into daycare late anyway so they could lounge for longer than I could. When I got home for lunch, the snow was indeed pretty much gone except in the shadiest areas. There didn’t appear to be too much plant damage at that time but with Friday’s freezing temperatures again that sealed the deal on the damage for many of the plants. Everything will bounce back except for the tomatoes and pumpkins, of course. The peppers look like they might go either way. I’ll know that in a few more days.
It was a magical experience and we joked with Forest he would see snow here again when he was about 13!
I have never been to southern Utah. My only experience with Utah has been to SLC and some areas around the Wasatch but I’ve been to plenty of other public lands (local, state, and federal) and what happened yesterday is sickening. When shit hit the fan on election day 2016 I knew we were in for it with the environment and public lands, not to mention so many other things we’ve been watching go down during the last year. It’s sickening, enraging, frustrating, and all around awful.
And I keep wondering when the insanity will end but I can only hope 2018 brings some mid-term elections to Congress that will balance the power dynamic out until we can get to 2020. As much as I can’t stand 45, I don’t want President Pence either.
I spent a lot of time in the early GWB years frustrated and upset with the continued push for drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge and pissed off about all sorts of bad environmental laws or non-laws during his administration. During part of that time I was working for a tribal government so I was often around federal government employees and you could see the switch in policy and demeanor when Obama was elected. It was like everyone was finally able to you know, protect the environment. And now, it seems we’ve plunged to even lower levels of environmental concern than in the GWB era.
Living in the second largest state in the United States, we have a pretty abysmal public lands to surface area ratio. We’ve got a couple of big national parks out west that take an entire day to reach for the majority of the state’s population and some great national forests on the eastern side of the state. Of course in between all of that are some state parks and state owned lands like wildlife management areas, but they are few and far between in the grand scheme of things. Even those wildlife management areas are actually pretty difficult to find and access compared to Florida’s wildlife management areas. When we lived in Florida we frequented many wildlife management areas to hike and explore, but here in Texas? Much harder to get public maps, find anything out about trails, muchless even access because they are largely there for hunters and not hikers so there are a lot more access closures during hunting seasons. Even clicking the link about getting a permit to visit just sends you to hunter permits.
I’ve seen several state parks here transferred to other entities like county or regional agencies. So, I can’t imagine if we chopped off our federal lands and let the states take care of them that the states would either a: have the funding to take care of them or b: don’t care about those lands and would sell them off to developers of varying entities. Sure, some of them might be protected to some small extent, but in reality? Come on, we all know what would happen.
Honestly, I’m at a loss for words and I’m just tired of the same damn, greedy game that keeps being played.
*Note: Regarding the first image, I realize that we could easily go back to 1492 and talk about actual stolen land from the people who were occupying this continent at that time but that’s a different conversation.*
+In My Head
I’m a little messed up with the timing of Thanksgiving this year. I’m used to the month ending pretty quickly after and this month we got almost an entire extra week so in my head I’m feeling like I’m behind on getting things done for Christmas. I noticed a lot more people decorating before Thanksgiving this year to prevent this sort of frenzied feeling and I think I may incorporate some of that next year, such as getting the lights on the stair-well hung and a few other small decorations.
I also feel out of sorts because the house has been a disaster for so long with Chris building the aquarium and then having to rearrange our kitchen furniture, which meant selling our china cabinet and having to find a place for everything inside it. Speaking of selling things, I’ve been slowly trying to sell various baby and maternity items as well as other household things such as the china cabinet. Surprisingly the china cabinet sold fairly fast (I was going to have a mental breakdown if it didn’t—too much clutter in the kitchen!) but I’ve had the worst time trying to sell baby items, particularly our crib. We got our crib from a college friend as a hand-me-down and at this point it has been through three kids. It has some wear on it from the kids but is in great condition. I’m selling it, with the mattress, two mattress covers, and four mattress sheets for $40. I mean, really, that’s to cover the sheets because they were the most expensive and since the crib had wear and we got it for free we didn’t really want to try to sell it for much. I’ve had a lot of interest, including almost getting rid of it but then not because someone came to pick it up and mentioned “Thanks for giving this for free!” to which I replied that it was $40 and they practically ran back to their car. I mean, I guess if you don’t have $40….but really. And people flake or fail to follow up via email. I’m posting via Nextdoor and Craigslist at this point.
I really thought maternity clothing would go pretty easily, too. I listed it all originally back in the spring as one bulk thing but had no one took a bite I photographed everything individually on hangers (if they hung) and spend time writing down brands and sizes. Chris was going to list on Ebay but I have been trying on Nextdoor and Craigslist first. So far I’ve only listed the maternity dresses—I haven’t gotten around to the others and hope to get that this week. I guess I’m just surprised they aren’t selling at all. I listed dresses at $10 each and they are mostly Motherhood Maternity which, if you know that store, it can be pricey. Other clothes will be cheaper based on wear and type, of course, but really? Am I listing too cheap? Do people want free? WTF?!?!?!
I suppose I could just take it all to Goodwill or another thrift store but I know so many of those places get overloaded and hearing about where donations go if they don’t end up in the thrift store, I’m not sure I want to donate a ton of stuff if I can sell it to someone who wants it. I suppose I could ThredUP some of it and get credit. I don’t know, we’ll see.
Do tell if you’ve had experience selling items through Nextdoor or Craigslist. Groups on Facebook are of no use to me because I don’t do Facebook.
Anyway, I hope to get through December and get through all of our baby clothes and keep what we want and move on to selling the rest. We’d love to give them to someone we know having a baby but alas, we were kind of the last people having babies and the one or two people I know who could have babies are not on that track at the moment.
I’m still working my way through Charmed on Netflix but I haven’t been watching it as much in the last couple of weeks. I did dive into Alias Grace on Netflix and looooved it! Before seeing previews for the show, I was not familiar with the book by Margaret Atwood that this is adapted from, nor the true story Atwood’s book is adapted from. Very fascinating mini-series put on by none other than the fabulous Sarah Polley. Some day I will get around to reading Atwood’s books.
On the Outlander front, I’m in a love/hate relationship with that show. I’m giving it the rest of the season and it might be dumped from my lineup. Yes, I’m having that much trouble with it! The front half of the season was pretty spectacular but whoever they got to do some of the writing in this back half has made me question if they know who Claire and Jamie are as characters. I don’t mind changing plot to fit the time frame for the series but I have a problem changing fundamental character configurations into story lines that make absolutely no sense. Some people are enjoying the so-called “Dark Jamie” aspect but I never thought of Jamie as ‘dark’ in any of the books. Fallible, sure…but there have been some questionable things he’s done and said in the last few episodes. Same with Claire. I’ve actually had a problem the entire series with Claire on the show because they’ve made her a little more air-headed than I think she was in the books. The last episode redeemed itself a bit but we shall see what happens with the remaining portion of the season.
I’m really looking forward to The Crown coming back soon! All of the previews have me really stoked to see more of the royal family. Still not sure how to handle the casting change when Claire Foy leaves but I’ll be interested to see how the actress replacing her will be able to fill in those same mannerisms Foy developed as the Queen. It’s a little Dr. Who-like, right?
HBO had a preview week last week and I managed to catch some things to record, one of them being Hidden Figures. It’s been on my radar to watch for a long time now so I was thrilled to see it and record it. There were several things that I got a kick out of, one of them being the use of computers for humans doing computing—because, duh Misti!—but seeing technology yet again phasing out jobs. I mean, early 60s and mid-2010s and it sounds similar. Of course this isn’t anything new, but just seeing this aspect of it made me think about today’s implications. I also thought about how Katherine had to run across the NASA campus to use the colored women’s restroom and remembered some other instances that didn’t have to do with race but just gender when women were moving into the work place, particularly in male dominated professions, and not having a restroom. Having that extra layer of racial burden put on the women really shook me, too. And then comparing all of that situation to the current trans-gendered bathroom ‘bills’ made me think that we really haven’t come as far as we have thought in accommodating our fellow human beings. Anyway, lots of parallels to on-going injustices in today’s society.
+Outside My Window
I just looked at the 10 day forecast and thought, well, looks like winter in Florida! 70s during the day, high 40s or 50s at night. Ok, so maybe depending on which part of Florida you are in depends on those night time temps, but it is either sunny or partly sunny for the next 10 days! I’m ok with this. It makes the holiday season feel weird but I will take sun over dreary and grey for weeks. I mean, give me a day or two for some cozy winter feelings but too much and I’m apt to curl up in a ball and never come out.
After I made the crochet wall hanging earlier in the month I continued on to making a Christmas wall hanging. I’ve not worked on it in over a week because the need to just chill after Forest gets into bed has over taken me. I’m about to get on the ball with making some Christmas gifts for Forest, though. I’m thinking homemade playdough and am going to be cutting up parts of my calendar from this year that will work as great clip art for gluing. Also contemplating some quick amigurumi crochet projects.
+In The Garden
That pull to hibernate and slow down is strong. I haven’t done much in the garden in the last week other than poke my head out and move some leaves off seedlings, finally finish mulching the edible garden paths, and do some watering. I did take milkweed cuttings of some of the milkweed I cut back. I need to start some seeds, contemplate December tomato seed starting for getting them out in the garden in late February/early March—yes, time to start thinking of that you southern folks.
The garden is just handling itself pretty well at the moment. Another chore that needs to be done is to finish raking up the leaves in the garden path and moving them to the compost pile. There’s plenty to do, just not as high on the priority list right now.
I know, right? I’ve gone strong all year and now I’m in a reading drought. I have a culprit. Bedtime changed when Forest got a big boy bed back at the end of October so I’m no longer sitting with him while he goes to sleep which means less reading time for me. I did finish What Happened because it had to go back to the library but my ability to focus on reading at the moment isn’t too strong. I’d like to get back to it soon, though.
Less reading has meant being able to do other things, like being unproductive and watching tv. Or being productive and working on crochet, editing photos, working on my blog, or working on the podcast.
Sarah and Beth from Pantsuit Politics podcast started a new podcast called The Nuanced Life. I am loving it so far because it’s more of these two fabulous ladies but none of the politics! I mean, I love their political show, but they bring to the table more great perspectives and the ability to balance each other well with different ideas on life. Worth checking out!
I put in my first request for a book to be ordered by the library. A couple of weeks later I received an email from the librarian in charge of ordering for our system and they said they would order it! I had read the book digitally but really wanted to read it on paper to re-absorb the information so I’m excited they are buying it! *mentally makes list of other books I want*
What’s up with you?
Can you find the butterfly?
Remember all of my cloudless sulphur caterpillars? Well, they all pupated—or I think they all pupated. I could only find two so far!
First I found a chrysalis attached to a wire up against the house about a week ago. I was very thrilled to see it and I had to do a double take at first because the chrysalis looked like a leaf. That’s a pretty fantastic cover if you ask me—and just like a changing autumn leaf to boot!
Since then I have been on a mission to find more but they have proved elusive. I’ve even looked further away from their host plant in case they really crawled a long way away to look for a place to pupate. Still—I hadn’t found more than that one.
Then last Sunday, as Forest was playing in the sand box and I was just milling about the potting bench and side yard garden, I got down on my knees to crawl around a bit and look harder. I saw something moving, a bright yellow thing, and as my eyes focused I realized it was a cloudless sulphur just eclosing! I mean, it had to have happened just a few minutes before because liquid was still dripping from her body.
Her chrysalis was still partly attached and her wings were slowly unfurling. It looked like one was having trouble opening but I supposed it could take awhile to full emerge, having watched the monarchs do the same in their cage.
Finding this newly emerged butterfly in the wild of my garden was pretty enthralling! I’ve tried to keep my eye on wild monarch and gulf fritillary chrysalides in the garden before to no avail—I always missed them emerging. It was pretty spectacular to have caught this one and I knew it was something special. At the time I was wishing I wasn’t having to keep an eye and ear on Forest so I could have sat there for the entire time she took to emerge. Instead I dashed inside to grab my camera as quickly as possible and took what photos I could of the elusive moment before Forest moved on to something else.
Then, a few days ago at lunch I opted for walking around the garden instead of actively working in it and I noticed the butterfly in the chrysalis on the wire had emerged. She was fully out and almost ready to fly but I noticed Ruby the feral was eyeing her a little too closely. I went inside to get my camera again and by the time I got back out Ruby had managed to knock her off the wire. I shooed Ruby away and picked up the butterfly. Luckily she was not harmed and I moved her about five feet up into a beautyberry to finish preparing for flight. The ferals are usually pretty good—at least what we’ve noticed—but from time to time we do see their predatory behavior impacting some wildlife in our yard. It’s one of the things we’ve had to reconcile ourselves with in letting them stay around. At least we don’t have the 15 that were here when we moved on…good grief that would have been insane. (I realize feral cats are highly contentious and don’t aim to make this for/against argument at the moment.)
There is an abundance of cloudless sulphurs visiting the salvias now and I keep looking for more caterpillars but haven’t seen any lately. The Argentine senna isn’t blooming anymore so maybe that’s one reason they aren’t there—they can’t camouflage on the flowers. I am seeing the odd monarch here and there and just found a caterpillar the other day. It’s time to cut the tropical milkweed back and I’ll probably do half of them this weekend and leave some so that caterpillar and any others can finish out its life cycle. Gulf fritillaries are still around as well and I’m seeing caterpillars once again after a slight lull.
It’s busy with the warm weather!